Paranoia, doubt & complications in regards to ethics, morality and righteousness are all things some of us dealt with in the past. This choice, or that choice? This life, or that life? These questions, topics, mental patterns and emotions can take their toll on the levels of joy, happiness and satisfaction we experience in lives, so I deem it as important to develop awareness around this topic. So, how can we overcome this fear of believing in or choosing the wrong thing. This could be a relationship, a carreer, a role, a philosophy, a desire, a need, a diet, an occupation, a purchase or whatever. Good question! Let’s dive straight into it! Here are some fundamental principles that helped me overcome the fear of choosing or believing in the wrong thing.
Constantly remind me that:
1. There is no right or wrong choice in life, only different paths to take.
2. Every choice presents an opportunity to learn and grow, regardless of the outcome.
4. No one can predict the future, so it's impossible to know if a choice is truly "right" or "wrong".
5. Even if a choice doesn't turn out the way I wanted, it can lead to unexpected opportunities or positive outcomes.
6. Trust myself and my instincts. Remember that I have the power to make changes if things don't work out.
7. Take harmonious Risks. Sometimes taking a risk and making a choice that feels uncomfortable can lead to the greatest rewards and personal growth.
8. It can be important to weigh the pros and cons of each option, but ultimately, the decision should align with my intuition, bodily gut feeling, values and priorities.
9. Seek advice and input from trusted friends or mentors, but remember that the final decision is mine to make.
10. Don't let the fear of making the wrong choice paralyze me from taking action. Remember that inaction can lead to missed opportunities and regrets.
11. Recognize that good and better choices are a natural part of life, and everyone makes them. It's how I respond to them that matters.
12. Often, the fear of choosing the wrong thing is worse than the actual outcome of the choice.
13. Take the time to reflect on my past choices and the lessons I learned from them. This can give me confidence in my decision-making abilities.
14. Trust that I have the skills, knowledge, and experience to make the best decision possible at the time.
15. Remember that there are usually multiple paths to achieving a goal or outcome, so don't put too much pressure on one particular choice.
16. Take a step back and try to view the decision from a different perspective or angle. This can help me see things more objectively.
17. Don't let fear or anxiety cloud my judgment. Take a few deep breaths and try to approach the decision with a clear and focused mind.
18. Consider the worst-case scenario and how I would handle it. Often, realizing that I have a plan in place can alleviate fears.
19. Remember that making a decision is a form of self-care, as it allows me to move forward and take control of my life.
20. See that waiting and not choosing, can be positive, desired, needed and/or harmonious, as it leads to greater awareness & intelligence.
21. Recognise that if I’m still very much in doubt about 2 things, both will very probably bring you a similar level of satisfaction, fulfilment, excitement & meaningful experience.
22. Finally, be kind to the Self and practice compassion. Remember that we are human and it's okay to make mistakes, as they often come out of ignorance or naiveté.
In conclusion, overcoming the fear of choosing or believing in the wrong thing requires us to recognize that making mistakes and experiencing uncertainty is a natural part of the human experience. It is essential to remember that there is no one right answer or path in life, and it is okay to change our minds as we learn and grow. To overcome this fear, we must learn to trust our instincts, question our assumptions, and seek out new perspectives. It is crucial to develop a growth mindset that values the learning process and acknowledges that failures and setbacks are opportunities for growth and development. By cultivating self-awareness and an openness to new experiences, we can break free from the constraints of fear and embrace the freedom of choice and belief. So don't be afraid to take risks, make mistakes, and explore new ideas. Remember that your beliefs and choices are a reflection of who you are, and by embracing your unique perspective, you can create a fulfilling and authentic life.